As for the specific example of aggressive behavior in a non-penetrative sexual encounter, I would probably tag the aggressive sexual partner as "toppy!".
Ah! That's a good option!
I started out writing fanfic when no one warned for anything except character death and sometimes rape. There came a huge upheaval, concerning warnings and a writer's responsibility, and when the dust cleared, folks were much more likely to warn where they hadn't before. It made sense, in terms of triggering people. I do my best to be careful but sometimes, I just can't. Any writer wants to think their story is so damn good, so wonderful, people will be grateful to have read, even if it was outside their comfort zone. Which is crap, I know, because I can count on one hand the number of times I clicked on Dean/Cas.
At AO3, I am incredibly grateful for the tags, more than once, they have saved my eyes. I've learned my lesson, and now, I read the tag list to the bitter end! :D
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Ah! That's a good option!
I started out writing fanfic when no one warned for anything except character death and sometimes rape. There came a huge upheaval, concerning warnings and a writer's responsibility, and when the dust cleared, folks were much more likely to warn where they hadn't before. It made sense, in terms of triggering people. I do my best to be careful but sometimes, I just can't. Any writer wants to think their story is so damn good, so wonderful, people will be grateful to have read, even if it was outside their comfort zone. Which is crap, I know, because I can count on one hand the number of times I clicked on Dean/Cas.
At AO3, I am incredibly grateful for the tags, more than once, they have saved my eyes. I've learned my lesson, and now, I read the tag list to the bitter end! :D