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roxy ([personal profile] roxy) wrote2013-10-23 08:15 pm
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Dear My Friends!

Well, life continues to be a puzzle. A sucky kind of puzzle. The children are hurting and if the children hurt, than we can't be happy. I have no way that I can help. The children were unlucky enough to be born of financially unsound parents and all we have to give are hugs which don't mean shit when you're struggling with money. And some rather painful issues. That roach thing? Unbeatable, insurmountable. I have no idea what BG is going to do at this point, but it's going to be a financial horror no matter what she chooses to do. Lord, this is going to kick my ass too. Tonight, I'm going to catch up with SpN, because last night all I saw was Castiel's stricken little face and the end credits. Dean did something bad, didn't he? Only Dean makes Cas look like that, poor shmuck.

Ah well. We need snuggles, my friends. Lots of snuggles.
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[identity profile] capnzebbie.livejournal.com 2013-10-24 01:15 am (UTC)(link)
*hugs* So sorry to see that you're having a hard time. So the salt thing didn't work for the roaches? I was interested to see what happened with that.

And yes, Dean did a bad thing that made poor Cas sad.

[identity profile] roxymissrose.livejournal.com 2013-10-24 02:05 am (UTC)(link)
Actually, exterminators came and I think it might have worked, but there's no easy fix for a full blown phobia. Next step, who knows? Poor kid. She's a horrible mess...I mean that in a totally non-judgmental way, of course.

[identity profile] gingersnap1224.livejournal.com 2013-10-24 01:20 am (UTC)(link)
The infestation is probably grounds to break her lease without penalty. I know that's not the best solution, but it's better than living with roaches. Ewww.

[identity profile] roxymissrose.livejournal.com 2013-10-24 01:56 am (UTC)(link)
Oh my dear...it's not even an infestation. It's a few roaches and massive amounts of phobia. Her father and I went to pick her up and we saw a single, sickly roach and I thought, honest to god, she was going to pass out. Sooooo...pesticide's not gonna be much help there, poor kid.

[identity profile] gingersnap1224.livejournal.com 2013-10-24 05:03 am (UTC)(link)
Aww poor thing. I totally understand her phobia. We all have an irrational fear of something. As you may have noticed, mine might be similar to hers. She is lucky she has parents who care so much.

[identity profile] day221b.livejournal.com 2013-10-24 01:24 am (UTC)(link)
Ah, Roxy! Sending virtual snuggles your way.

[identity profile] roxymissrose.livejournal.com 2013-10-24 01:56 am (UTC)(link)
Ah, thank you, love!

[identity profile] tasabian.livejournal.com 2013-10-24 02:02 am (UTC)(link)
I'm sorry that there is stress and sadness right now.

The children were unlucky enough to be born of financially unsound parents and all we have to give are hugs which don't mean shit when you're struggling with money.
No. The children were lucky to be born of loving parents and good people, which is the single best gift any child can ever get, an armour against anything life can throw at you. Money problems and a roach or two are definitely unpleasant but surmountable. What you've given her lasts for life.

I think you'll enjoy SPN. Oh, the boy drama, the LIES, on all sides.

[identity profile] roxymissrose.livejournal.com 2013-10-24 02:34 am (UTC)(link)
If you were standing right here in front of me, you'd be treated to the sight of a horribly wrinkly, elderly baby watering all up and trying to play like she's not sniveling.

*HUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUGS* ♥ ♥


I jut finished watching Show and I don't get why folks don't seem to like it because I thought it was *great*! What a hotbed of lies, lies, lies, and yes, I think *everyone* is lying, humans, angels and all. Go Jared, he's kicking it in the butt, wow! :)

[identity profile] dawnybee.livejournal.com 2013-10-24 02:18 am (UTC)(link)
all we have to give are hugs which don't mean shit when you're struggling with money.

So true. I just had unexpected bills due to a medical emergency and I debated saying to my landlord,'I'm going to be late with my rent but I can give you a hug., Yeah or naw? " So my money is funny but I have the love and support of my mom as BG does with you both and it makes the struggle easier. She doesn't want you to feel bad, I'm sure.

That said roaches:: shudders::. Is she renting? The landlord should be footing the bill for an exterminator. I would check tenant rights for her locale.

[identity profile] roxymissrose.livejournal.com 2013-10-24 02:39 am (UTC)(link)
No, she keeps apologizing for being freaked out! She's going to leave the apartment. Should be interesting to see what's coming next, poor kid. Too bad she takes after her mother when it comes to crippling phobias. :(

Mother hugs feel good, though. Good to give and good to get. ♥

[identity profile] firesign10.livejournal.com 2013-10-24 02:32 am (UTC)(link)
Money sucks :-P I'm rather racking my brain over it as well. Jeezus.

I didn't watch yet either. This week is nutty with rehearsal every night. Planning to watch tomorrow morning (thursday).

Much love and snuggles :-)

[identity profile] roxymissrose.livejournal.com 2013-10-24 02:40 am (UTC)(link)
Contrary to everyone else, I liked the ep very much--especially the interaction between Sam and Dean and Dean adn Zeke. Oh my!


*giant hugs* :)

[identity profile] stir-of-echoes.livejournal.com 2013-10-24 06:02 am (UTC)(link)
*massive snuggles* I think your children were lucky enough to be born to parents who care so much. Yeah, it sucks to be without much cash but what you give them is priceless. Although, saying that doesn't help I know.

*more snuggles*

[identity profile] roxymissrose.livejournal.com 2013-10-30 04:44 am (UTC)(link)
omgosh! Please forgive me! I'm sorry to take so long to respond! I had no idea I didn't respond to this because I certainly read it. Thank you, love! Those snuggles help, trust me!

[identity profile] stir-of-echoes.livejournal.com 2013-11-01 04:00 pm (UTC)(link)
It happens to me all the time. I think I've replied to something and then weeks or later I see I haven't :)

[identity profile] elli.livejournal.com 2013-10-24 07:22 am (UTC)(link)
Have some snuggles from me..*bighugz*

[identity profile] roxymissrose.livejournal.com 2013-10-30 04:46 am (UTC)(link)
I feel terrible! I read your lovely comment and thought I'd responded but apparently I just sucked up the snuggles and ran!

Thanks so much, my dear--those hugs keep me on a somewhat even keel. ;)

[identity profile] elli.livejournal.com 2014-01-02 10:10 pm (UTC)(link)
heee don't worry about that 'hugz'
That tends to happen to me as well.

[identity profile] peepingdru.livejournal.com 2013-10-24 07:23 am (UTC)(link)
How awesome that u care...u rock!!!!!!..x0x0x00x0x0x00
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[identity profile] roxymissrose.livejournal.com 2013-10-30 04:48 am (UTC)(link)
*glomps* So sorry for taking so long to respond--especially when I saw this and loved this gif so much!

I kinda love the way it looks like Jared is stroking Jensen's ass with the toy... :D

[identity profile] jackien1968.livejournal.com 2013-10-24 07:42 am (UTC)(link)
Nah, hon', Mom-hugs are priceless, trust me.

*sending huggles to top-up your supply*

I too am fucking terrified of roaches. A snarling doberman would probably have to also be rabid to scare me half as much as one tiny roach.

Poor Cas, 'n' poor Dean. It took blackmail to make Dean do so bad a thing.

*piles of smishes*!!!

J

[identity profile] roxymissrose.livejournal.com 2013-10-30 04:52 am (UTC)(link)
I'm so sorry I took so long to respond!! I thought I had!!

Your comment helped *so* much, you have no idea! BG felt like she was all alone in her fear and was feeling stupid and ashamed (her words, and very upsetting to me. ) It helped her feel so much better to know that she wasn't alone--no matter what mom says, it helps to hear it from other people too.

*HUUUUUUUUUUUGS*
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[personal profile] tabaqui 2013-10-24 11:10 am (UTC)(link)
Aw, bb.
*hugs you tight*

Yes, money woes are sucktastic, but you *care*, you *love*, and you try, and that's more important.
*smishes you some more*

It'll work out, bb.
*luffs*

Oh, Show. Tearing my heart out one episode at a time.
*sniffle*

[identity profile] roxymissrose.livejournal.com 2013-10-30 04:54 am (UTC)(link)
So sorry to be so late to respond--for some reason I thought I had. :(

We're working on it and now it looks like there's a light at the end of the tunnel...with any luck it will be on a much better track at the end of the week--cross everything, beloved!!
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[personal profile] tabaqui 2013-10-30 11:21 am (UTC)(link)
I'm glad to hear it, bb.
*hugs*

[identity profile] ferdalump.livejournal.com 2013-10-24 11:54 am (UTC)(link)
**Snuggles and smushes**

I'm sorry you're having a crappy down time right now. :( :( :(

[identity profile] roxymissrose.livejournal.com 2013-10-24 03:19 pm (UTC)(link)
FERD!!

Oh Ferd, it's so hard when you can't fix their owies with a kiss anymore. *snivels hard*

Thank you, love, for the snuggles and the smushes! So much! hearts;

[identity profile] lyryk.livejournal.com 2013-10-24 04:05 pm (UTC)(link)
*squishes*

[identity profile] roxymissrose.livejournal.com 2013-10-30 04:56 am (UTC)(link)
Thank you! *siiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiighs*

So sorry to take so long to respond--I really thought I had. I guess I just soaked up the love and took off. Oy.

[identity profile] cha.livejournal.com 2013-10-24 06:39 pm (UTC)(link)
I don't have much to say that's intelligent ... so *hugs*

[identity profile] roxymissrose.livejournal.com 2013-10-30 04:57 am (UTC)(link)
*mmmmmmm*

thank you love, hugs are even better than words sometimes. :)

[identity profile] roxymissrose.livejournal.com 2013-10-30 04:57 am (UTC)(link)
♥ ♥ ♥ ♥

Thank you, my dear!!