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roxy ([personal profile] roxy) wrote2007-04-11 06:22 pm

So Sad...

Last week, I was at [livejournal.com profile] thamiris's website, reading her stories,and thinking what a wonderful writer she was, and what a fascinating person. Today, I come home and read the news,and I feel like I lost something special. I didn't know her, I just lurked at her journal, and enjoyed the way her mind worked. She was a unique person, the kind of people that SV attracted in the day. I know she'll be deeply missed. THis is very very sad news.

[identity profile] dancinbutterfly.livejournal.com 2007-04-11 10:40 pm (UTC)(link)
whoa, thamaris is dead?

[identity profile] roxymissrose.livejournal.com 2007-04-11 10:54 pm (UTC)(link)
Yes--[livejournal.com profile] suzvoy has a link to the obituary, I think.

[identity profile] droolfangrrl.livejournal.com 2007-04-11 10:43 pm (UTC)(link)
Take care hon.

[identity profile] roxymissrose.livejournal.com 2007-04-11 10:57 pm (UTC)(link)
*hugs*
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[personal profile] danceswithgary 2007-04-11 10:52 pm (UTC)(link)
It is. *hug*

[identity profile] roxymissrose.livejournal.com 2007-04-11 10:57 pm (UTC)(link)
*clings*

[identity profile] norwich36.livejournal.com 2007-04-11 10:52 pm (UTC)(link)
*Hugs*

She will definitely be missed. She was such an amazing writer, but even more than that, a remarkably warm and welcoming and generous person. I didn't know her well at all--mostly, like you, I lurked and admired her from afar--but I feel completely devastated.

[identity profile] roxymissrose.livejournal.com 2007-04-11 10:56 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh, I feel that way too, I thought I was being ridiculous because I didn't know her personally, but I just want to cry and cry....

[identity profile] norwich36.livejournal.com 2007-04-11 11:18 pm (UTC)(link)
I can't stop crying, and I had that same feeling of inauthenticity (I barely knew her, on a personal level), but on the other hand, she was so much what I aspired to be: an unbelievably brilliant writer who brought an amazing creative eye to fic and to meta, and someone who just created an atmosphere in her journal where everyone truly felt welcomed, and where people had the most passionate and interesting discussions. I just can't believe she's gone, and I'm so damned angry at the universe right now.

[identity profile] dawnybee.livejournal.com 2007-04-11 11:01 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm trying to keep it together because I'm at work, but this just makes my heart sick. I can't believe it. Ever since she announced that she had cancer, I prayed for the best for her. F*cking cancer.

[identity profile] roxymissrose.livejournal.com 2007-04-11 11:04 pm (UTC)(link)
I know, my people are looking at me like I'm crazy but it's just making me so sad. *hugs you so hard*

[identity profile] dawnybee.livejournal.com 2007-04-12 12:03 am (UTC)(link)
*hugs you back*
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[identity profile] kristiinthedark.livejournal.com 2007-04-11 11:23 pm (UTC)(link)
oh, Roxy. *hugs you tight*

[identity profile] roxymissrose.livejournal.com 2007-04-11 11:29 pm (UTC)(link)
*clings*
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[personal profile] tabaqui 2007-04-11 11:24 pm (UTC)(link)
Aw, damn.
*hugs hard*

[identity profile] roxymissrose.livejournal.com 2007-04-11 11:30 pm (UTC)(link)
Ack...make me stop crying! *clings*
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[personal profile] tabaqui 2007-04-12 12:10 am (UTC)(link)
*hugs and snuggles you*

[identity profile] onelittlesleep.livejournal.com 2007-04-11 11:31 pm (UTC)(link)
Woah, Roxy. Woah. I think I've known of you and Thamiris the same amount of time. It makes me glad your own my flist. It feels really strange, because for good or bad, Thamiris was the cornerstone of a lot of my fandom...beginnings? I got an LJ because I saw that she had one...this is strange, because she was always Thamiris.


...not this older professor woman with breast cancer. It makes me feel...strange, that I didn't know her better.

[identity profile] roxymissrose.livejournal.com 2007-04-11 11:44 pm (UTC)(link)
yeah, when I first starting reading SV, she was one of the writers that made me crave to read everything I could in SV, and then made me want to add my two cents to the fandom...she seemed to enjoy everything so much and when she talked about SV, it sounded so much better than it actually was. heh. I liked looking at it through her eyes.

[identity profile] myownghost.livejournal.com 2007-04-12 12:00 am (UTC)(link)
this is the first i've heard. i'll go to the obit you link to, above.

[identity profile] roxymissrose.livejournal.com 2007-04-12 03:56 am (UTC)(link)
*HUGS*
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[identity profile] roxymissrose.livejournal.com 2007-04-12 03:57 am (UTC)(link)
it's very sad news for SV. *hugs back hard*
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[personal profile] beet 2007-04-12 03:44 am (UTC)(link)
Wow.
I came to catch up on what you have been up to, and found out about Tham.
So, sad. Thank you for letting us know, hon.
((hugsyoutight))

[identity profile] roxymissrose.livejournal.com 2007-04-12 03:55 am (UTC)(link)
*hugsback* I hopped on after work this evening and found the news on [livejournal.com profile] suzvoy's LJ. I really was knocked for a loop.

[identity profile] matryoshkarose.livejournal.com 2007-04-12 04:35 am (UTC)(link)
I came home to find the news all over my flist and was just...stunned. She was just so much larger than life, you know. I've been reading through her stories all evening now and it's both depressing and comforting. *hugs*

[identity profile] roxymissrose.livejournal.com 2007-04-12 04:52 am (UTC)(link)
*hugshard* I think that describes her so well. She wrote such wonderful stories--she seemed to have such zest for life.

[identity profile] dana-aeryn.livejournal.com 2007-04-12 05:45 am (UTC)(link)
What a shock. I hadn't heard at all. I loved her stories. I have read Along came a spider and The Rules of Blue so many times. She was a very talented writer.

[identity profile] roxymissrose.livejournal.com 2007-04-12 06:08 am (UTC)(link)
I can't stop thinking about it and each new post makes me sad all over again.
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[identity profile] petit-rhino.livejournal.com 2007-04-12 08:10 am (UTC)(link)
She's dead?! I didn't know her personally, but she's an amazing writer.
She will be missed.

[identity profile] roxymissrose.livejournal.com 2007-04-12 03:27 pm (UTC)(link)
She will. She was a special person--you didn't have to be close to her to see that.

[identity profile] suzvoy.livejournal.com 2007-04-12 08:38 am (UTC)(link)
*hugs you tight*

:(

[identity profile] roxymissrose.livejournal.com 2007-04-12 03:28 pm (UTC)(link)
*clings* I'm so sad about it.
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[personal profile] romyra 2007-04-12 03:21 pm (UTC)(link)
I can't even begin to say anything. My God...this really hit home. *Hugs Everyone*

[identity profile] roxymissrose.livejournal.com 2007-04-12 03:28 pm (UTC)(link)
*hugsback*