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roxy ([personal profile] roxy) wrote2010-08-05 08:09 pm

wow friends....

We had a big scare Monday. The nursing home I'm struggling to keep my dad in--another story in itself--called to let me know they were sending my dad to the ER, that he'd been vomiting and had a fever.

I get to the ER and find a mess--Dad's freaking out and no one will really tell me what's going on. I spend large amounts of time in the hallway until I finally get some answers. Seemed he had a kidney stone, it blocked the duct from the kidney, led to infection and that of course made all kinds of problems and the doctor told me I should call the family together, that he was almost certainly not going to make it.

I did that, but I had the feeling that my pop wasn't going anywhere and I was right. Today, he's out of the ICU and probably going to go home tomorrow or the next day.

Okay, so here's the thing--the man is 90 years old and swears that any minute, he's about to stroke out. You know what I think? He's gonna be around for a looooooong time. He's like that Cosby routine, that one Cos used to do when he was still funny, about the old men sitting around saying, "Guess I won't be around much longer"--those guys who outlive everyone. ;)

[identity profile] rednihilist.livejournal.com 2010-08-06 12:14 am (UTC)(link)
*HUGS*

On second thought:

*MAJOR HUGS*

So fucking glad your Pop is so stubborn. :)

[identity profile] roxymissrose.livejournal.com 2010-08-06 02:45 am (UTC)(link)
*LEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEAAAAAN*

Right? :)

[identity profile] myownghost.livejournal.com 2010-08-06 12:20 am (UTC)(link)
how scary! i'm glad he's feeling enough better that he'll be leaving the hospital soon.

i know the kind of old guy you (and cos) are referring to. my mom used to say that kind of person is "tougher than a pine knot."

[identity profile] roxymissrose.livejournal.com 2010-08-06 02:47 am (UTC)(link)
That describes my dad about perfectly! I'll know more tomorrow but I'm sure it won't be long before he's out!

[identity profile] dawnybee.livejournal.com 2010-08-06 12:22 am (UTC)(link)
So glad to hear Pops is on the mend. He has a fighting spirit, you get it honestly!

[identity profile] roxymissrose.livejournal.com 2010-08-06 02:48 am (UTC)(link)
Thanks, love! He has that fighting spirit for sure! :)

[identity profile] ferdalump.livejournal.com 2010-08-06 12:57 am (UTC)(link)
Awwww, *HUGS YOU TIGHT* You have been on a rollercoaster ride, but I'm very happy to hear your Pop is on the mend. And heheheeheh, he seems like he's quite stubborn, but in the best of ways. :)

*hugs again*

[identity profile] roxymissrose.livejournal.com 2010-08-06 02:50 am (UTC)(link)
Oh yeah--he's stubborn in the pain in the ass way too, lol! Finally--stubborn's working for him! :)

It's been kind of nuts--thanks so much for the hugs, Ferd! And if you have a Target near you, girl--look in the men's t-shirt department! ;)

[identity profile] selinamoonfire.livejournal.com 2010-08-06 01:02 am (UTC)(link)
*HUGS and more HUGS*

[identity profile] roxymissrose.livejournal.com 2010-08-06 02:51 am (UTC)(link)
*clings and sighs*

[identity profile] rosy5000.livejournal.com 2010-08-06 01:09 am (UTC)(link)
This has been a real crappy week for you. :( But I'm glad to hear your dad's going to be ok. Hope he stays so stubborn. :) *hugs* ♥

[identity profile] roxymissrose.livejournal.com 2010-08-06 02:52 am (UTC)(link)
It's been kind of crazy, for sure. But your icon made me smile so--*schmooooocies*
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[identity profile] ctbn60.livejournal.com 2010-08-06 01:14 am (UTC)(link)
((HUGS))

I am so glad he pulled through!!

[identity profile] roxymissrose.livejournal.com 2010-08-06 02:53 am (UTC)(link)
*hugs back hard*

omgoodness, I'm telling you--it was scary for a bit there. But so much better now, thank you, love!

[identity profile] silsbee329.livejournal.com 2010-08-06 01:31 am (UTC)(link)
AAAAAAAACK. *HUGS*

[identity profile] roxymissrose.livejournal.com 2010-08-06 02:53 am (UTC)(link)
*CLINGS* iknowright?? *SO* relieved now!

[identity profile] tasabian.livejournal.com 2010-08-06 01:50 am (UTC)(link)
Poor Dad and poor you, as well. It sounds so stressful and exhausting.

Glad that he gets to go home soon.

[identity profile] roxymissrose.livejournal.com 2010-08-06 02:54 am (UTC)(link)
*HUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUGS*

Thank you, beloved!

[identity profile] garryowen.livejournal.com 2010-08-06 02:23 am (UTC)(link)
Hey there, Roxy. I'm glad dad's okay. I was worried over here. What a scare you had! Take it easy on yourself this weekend. You must be exhausted.

[identity profile] roxymissrose.livejournal.com 2010-08-06 02:55 am (UTC)(link)
I feel a little beat up, I won't lie! :) I have a day off tomorrow and I'm sleeping in, for real!

*HUGS* Thanks so much, my dear!

[identity profile] luvmax1.livejournal.com 2010-08-06 02:31 am (UTC)(link)
I'm glad he's doing better, Roxy. He sounds like one tough guy- kind of like his daughter!

[identity profile] roxymissrose.livejournal.com 2010-08-06 02:56 am (UTC)(link)
*GRIN* We Gardners are tough old things all the way around! ;)

Thanks muchly, my dear!

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[identity profile] quiet--tiger.livejournal.com 2010-08-06 02:35 am (UTC)(link)
Glad he's doing better!

[identity profile] roxymissrose.livejournal.com 2010-08-06 02:57 am (UTC)(link)
It's like now we can all take a breath! Thanks, my dear! :)
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[personal profile] danceswithgary 2010-08-06 03:24 am (UTC)(link)
*hug*

[identity profile] roxymissrose.livejournal.com 2010-08-06 04:17 pm (UTC)(link)
*CLINGS*

He's doing really well now, thanks so much!

[identity profile] ladydreamer.livejournal.com 2010-08-06 03:44 am (UTC)(link)
I'm glad he's feeling better. *great big hugs for you*

[identity profile] roxymissrose.livejournal.com 2010-08-06 04:18 pm (UTC)(link)
Thank you so much my dear!

[identity profile] cha.livejournal.com 2010-08-06 04:52 am (UTC)(link)
:) sometimes I think they older ones are so stubborn they ain't goin' anywhere - sorry that your world is a bit rattled though!!

[identity profile] roxymissrose.livejournal.com 2010-08-06 04:18 pm (UTC)(link)
That's the truth! *g*
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[personal profile] digitalwave 2010-08-06 05:46 am (UTC)(link)
Sweetie,

I'm so, so glad that things are going better for you and your dad. It's scary just how quickly things can go south with them health-wise, isn't it?

Speaking from experience get some rest, Roxy. You can't help him, or you, if you're exhausted.

*hugs you very hard*

[identity profile] roxymissrose.livejournal.com 2010-08-06 04:22 pm (UTC)(link)
It is! The night he got sick, we talked on the phone--he gave me a list of things he wanted me to do, we chatted about random things and he told me he felt pretty good--the next morning they're rushing him to the ER. It's just mind-boggling. And then to bounce back so well--he's something else!

Thank you so much, love-- you have so much of your own going on and I apreciate so much you taking time out for me. *HUGHUG*

[identity profile] jackien1968.livejournal.com 2010-08-06 05:53 am (UTC)(link)
Thank goodness the dire predictions were less than predictive.

Big hugs to you and Dad,
Jackie

[identity profile] roxymissrose.livejournal.com 2010-08-06 04:23 pm (UTC)(link)
*G* Really! My head's still swimming a bit! Thank you so much for the hugs!

[identity profile] suzvoy.livejournal.com 2010-08-06 07:57 am (UTC)(link)
Meep! So glad he's doing better :)

[identity profile] roxymissrose.livejournal.com 2010-08-06 04:24 pm (UTC)(link)
Thank you Suz, I was kind of scared for a moment!

[identity profile] honeyandvinegar.livejournal.com 2010-08-06 08:22 am (UTC)(link)
OH MY. That's one hell of a *nailbite* session. Very glad that he made it out--and yea, my grandma said the same crap, lol. Lived 'til 93, I think. She started saying that junk about 80 or so. *hugs you and daddy-o*

[identity profile] roxymissrose.livejournal.com 2010-08-06 04:26 pm (UTC)(link)
LOL! Right? That man has been acting like he's at death's door for twenty years!

Thanks so much for the hugs--I love them like chocolate! :)

[identity profile] jakrar.livejournal.com 2010-08-06 11:13 am (UTC)(link)
So glad your father's doing better. And, yes, some of these tough older folks will outlive us all.

[identity profile] roxymissrose.livejournal.com 2010-08-06 04:27 pm (UTC)(link)
I swear, that's so true! :)
Thank you, love!

[identity profile] roxymissrose.livejournal.com 2010-08-06 04:27 pm (UTC)(link)
*leans* Thank you my dear!

[identity profile] bonehed.livejournal.com 2010-08-06 02:25 pm (UTC)(link)
sorry to be late to comment - just got home...so big hugs now.

but i know what you mean about them sticking around. my 93 year old dad has broken both hips, his back, his pelvis and assorted ribs all in separate accidents in the last 6 years. i swear he's going to out live me.

i bought him a new computer (his 3rd) for his b'day last month. cracks me up!!!

hang in there sweets!

[identity profile] roxymissrose.livejournal.com 2010-08-06 04:28 pm (UTC)(link)
Wow!! Your dad is Superman!!

*HUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUGS back*

We're all doing much better now--very much relieved! :)

[identity profile] emeraldsedai.livejournal.com 2010-08-06 07:12 pm (UTC)(link)
What a terrible night both you and your dad must have spent. I'm glad he pulled through. And I remember that Cosby routine. He was incredibly funny once upon a time.

[identity profile] roxymissrose.livejournal.com 2010-08-06 07:37 pm (UTC)(link)
Thank you love--I'm kind of spending the day just destressing. ;)

And Cos, omg, he *was* the funniest once upon a time! That man could make me cry laughing. Felt like he was talking about my life sometimes.
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[personal profile] tabaqui 2010-08-06 10:50 pm (UTC)(link)
*hugs you tight*

He sounds like a tough old guy, and yeah - probably have him around for a good many more years to come.
*all good thoughts and energy and love*

:)
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[personal profile] ender24 2010-08-08 03:05 pm (UTC)(link)
I will hope for the best for him (and for you).

[identity profile] roxymissrose.livejournal.com 2010-08-10 06:28 am (UTC)(link)
All is well now, and he's out of the hospital! Thank you so much for your good wishes!