Need hugs. :(

[roxy]

I can't stop feeling sad for no reason. I'm getting on my own nerves. And all this sadness keeps me from writing. I did post the 3rd part of the WIP I'm posting but I made it private until I can clean it up. Which I will do as soon as I stop getting broadsided by tears out of nowhere, damn it.

Menopause seriously is the mother-fucking devil. :(

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[tasabian.livejournal.com]

*hugs* Stupid menopause. Hope tomorrow brings happier times.

[firesign10.livejournal.com]

It do suck, NGL. The hot flashes are killing me :-P so I am right there with you!!

You are a fabulous, fabulous writer. It's sickeningly easy to doubt that, so keep reading that sentence over and over. Frankly, you are one the the big reasons I keep writing when I get hit with the doubt stick, so please take some encouragement back for yourself!

Knowing that the sad IS for no reason is a big plus. You aren't running around going "wtf is the sad??" It's just there! It's got no reason! So don't go berserk looking for the reason ;-)

There's some saying about letting fear go through you, so it won't paralyze you? Think of the sad that way. There it is, but let it just go on its way and it will pass.

Also, there's things like meds out there that can help, if you are super-stuck or it's happening all the time. Do you like/trust your doctor? Is this something you can talk about with him/her? A short course of something mild could be helpful in getting over this hump, if you find you're being really hamstrung. There's no reason to suffer unduly, when there might be help available.

Lastly - I love you. You're warm and smart and witty and adorable, and your snarky talk and big heart are a delight. So there :-)

*HUGs*******************

[serafina20.livejournal.com]

*hugs* I'm sorry you're sad. *hugs*

[casey28.livejournal.com]

Sorry you're feeling down... *sends Sam and Dean to comfort you*

*hugs*

[morrphyc.livejournal.com]

No! Sad Roxy is not allowed. *hugs* Tomorrow will bring joy, I just know it. ;-)

[galwithglasses.livejournal.com]

Ugh, hormones and the lack thereof....I totally get it. Hang in there.

Sends you Odysseus and Argos with a smile for you.....

[rosy5000.livejournal.com]

*cuddles you up in a tight hug* If menopause was a person, I'd punch them in the nose for you. Not nice making my Roxy feel bad. *hugs you some more* Feel better. :) ♥

[dawnybee.livejournal.com]

::rushes in, turns on boombox (an iPod won't due in this situation) places it over my head::



It'll be okay. ::hugs:: Here's some cheery things.





Or think about what exactly he did to get those merit badges. I think half of them involved rope.

[peepingdru.livejournal.com]

((((padas))))).......sooooooo glad me pasedededed it...x0x00x0x0
Cheer up giffy thang...lol

[smalltrolven.livejournal.com]

Ah sigh, menopause blues eh? Doing a bit o' that myself I think. It sucks, and I'm sorry, and I hope it lifts soon so you can keep writing, I want to read part #3!

[fanspired]

This'll bring a smile to your face:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3NS4frRMIQk

[quickreaver.livejournal.com]

The fact that you're aware of it and putting it in perspective is HUGE! Just take deep breaths and give yourself the luxury of time. Now that the weather is breaking, go on walks; works wonders for me! The fresh air, emptying the old brain, and the fact you know there are folks who care about you and will enjoy your writing when it surfaces will make you feel a little lighter. :)

[digitalwave]

Sweetie, I will happily send you all the hugs! Feel better, okay? Love you!

*hugs you hard*

[gingersnap1224.livejournal.com]

Come here, you!

If I didn't live clear across the country, I would come and wrap you in a blankie and give you a nice cup of coffee and cheer you up with the story of how I was terrorized by a chicken. I will never forget it's beady little eyes and mocking cluck...

[stir-of-echoes.livejournal.com]

*hugs you hard*

[jackien1968.livejournal.com]

Awwww, hon', have a ***HUUUUUUG*** and an adorbs li'l Jared.

<3
J

[fufaraw]

All the hugs in the world to you, love. And ease, meanwhile.

[elli.livejournal.com]

*bighugz*

[tifaching.livejournal.com]

Huge tackle hugs for you. Sorry you're down bb. *sends you all the chocolate and hopes the sad goes away soon*

[fannishliss.livejournal.com]

hugs!!

here is a funny vid too :)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SQptF_iCfok

[me-ya-ri.livejournal.com]

:( *huggles you and pushes cookies in your mouth* I hope you feel better, sweetie!

[cinderella81.livejournal.com]

**hugs tight**

[danceswithgary]

*hug*

[nashmaveric.livejournal.com]

Hormones... the bane of all women's existence. ::hugs::

[tabaqui]

Aw, bb.
*hugs you tight*

I wish i could bop up to your house, take you out for steak and cake, and do some boy-watching. That would be so fun!
I...don't know if i'm in menopause or not. I get these big, sobby moments sometimes but....i dunno? I guess i'll just have wait and see.....

I need to win the lottery so i can visit *all my friends*.
*smooches you*