Roxy, Mizz Rose

Poor things! All of you! There, there. It sounds like your other relatives are still in denial. They have to come out of it at their own pace; it won't help anything to try to make them see how all their plans are hopeless before that. It must be horrible for you to see so much that's wrong and different and that you can't fix, and to be missing your sister as she used to be on top of that. I remember Pfeffa's grandfather and the Alzheimer's, but at least he was already old and had had a full life. Good luck and wishes to you all, and I hope you feel better soon. I can put on my Bo hat and say Time heals all wounds, but that probably won't help. *hugs*
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((((roxy))))