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[roxy]

I owe thanks to romyra for an *AWESOME* gift, to priscel for the cutest dang snowpeople who are now known as Mr and Mrs SnowRoxy--I mean real thanks not just this mention and I will thank you, not to mention lapetite_kiki, who made me go awwwwww when I opened her card....

I haven't been around much lately, just kind of dropping in and dashing out because RL has been pretty rough lately. Between me royally and stupidly fucking up with the IRS and running back and forth to the hospital and worrying about my dad and my job, things have been kind of terrible really. And today, my dad's nursing home called me and asked me to come in because he wasn't doing well. He passed away tonight at 10 pm. We were all there with him, from morning until night, so he was never alone. I'm still, I don't know, in shock or something. It doesn't seem real. I want to talk about him some more but not tonight. Tonight, I just want to fall in bed and not think about anything.

Comments

[tasabian.livejournal.com]

I'm so sorry for your loss, my dear.

[jesseofthenorth.livejournal.com]

I am really very sorry to hear this Miss R. Very sorry. I will be thinking of you over the next days hoping you are getting what you need.
My deepest possible sympathies at your loss.

[roxymissrose.livejournal.com]

Thank you, love.

[roxymissrose.livejournal.com]

*hugs* Thank you so much,my dear.

[rednihilist.livejournal.com]

I wish I had something great and inspirational to say, my dearest heart, but I don't. Know that you have both my sympathy and empathy, and if there is anything, anything, I can do for you or yours, please don't hesitate to ask it of me. I'll do it in a heartbeat.

I love you, as great and deeply as kindred spirits found on the interwebs can, and if my thoughts have any power over the course of events, you'll get through this. Take care of your family, and let them take care of you.

*too many hugs to count*

[roxymissrose.livejournal.com]

It is great and inspirational--you make me feel loved.

[tasabian.livejournal.com]

When you do feel like posting about your Dad, I'd love to read it because he sounds like he was a wonderful man (and you were a great daughter.) *hugs*

[matryoshkarose.livejournal.com]

I'm so sorry. I'm glad that you could be there with him.

[cha.livejournal.com]

That makes me sad. I wish I could come over with some ice cream and a big hug.

[rosy5000.livejournal.com]

I'm so sorry about your dad. :( Whenever you're ready to talk about him, you know you have ears more than willing to listen.

You know you're always in my thoughts, but I'm sending out some extra special love for you tonight. *hugs you tight* ♥

[hyperfocused.livejournal.com]

So sorry Wish I couldn't say I've been there. Big hugs headed your way.

[myownghost.livejournal.com]

Oh, I am so sorry to read this. When you do feel like writing more about him, I'll want to read it. Love to you and yours, and a great big hug.

[jlvsclrk.livejournal.com]

I'm so sorry to hear about your father. *hug*

[mahaliem.livejournal.com]

You have my sincere condolences. *hugs*

[romyra]

Oh Roxy, I'm thrilled that you got my card and humbled by your dad's passing. I am glad that you and your family were able to be there and I'm sure that it was a comfort to you and to him. I sympathize with your sorrow and I hope that your family will be a balm for your soul. You have my deepest sympathies.

[bonehed.livejournal.com]

I'm right there with you and hanging on tight. We will have them with us wherever we go and whatever we do. We are who we are because of them. And it's OK to keep talking to him. Just breathe.

XXOOO

[orbiting-saturn.livejournal.com]

Oh, honey. ::hugs you tightly::

I'm so saddened to hear about your loss. This must be a very difficult time for you.

[carolinecrane.livejournal.com]

I'm so sorry. I'll be keeping you in my thoughts.

[lexophilia.livejournal.com]

I love you, ma. If there's anything that I can do for you or your family, please let me know.

[quiet--tiger.livejournal.com]

I'm so sorry. :( *hugs*

[bluemeridian]

I'm so sorry for your loss. *hugs* I can still see the picture you posted of him once and, with the stories you've told, he just sounded like a pretty amazing man. ♥

[ctbn60.livejournal.com]

I'm so sorry to hear about the loss of your dad hon. *hugs *

[lapetite-kiki.livejournal.com]

*big hugs*

[silsbee329.livejournal.com]

Oh, Roxy, I am so sorry. *wraps you in a big hug*

[carolandtom.livejournal.com]

Oh Roxy, I'm so sorry for your loss. I was going to post a comment to say that I owed you many but I think of you often when I read this. I'm very sorry. I wish I could give you a hug in person but at least can send you my love. *Hugs tight*