update

This is what has happened over the last few weeks.
we drove to Georgia for Mitch's funeral. It was awful, just as I expected it was going to be. I think we were all too much in survival mode to have anything make a dent in that. After we came back home we went right to work and then the weekend past was the cabin thing. Mr. R had made the arrangements a long time before everything and we decided to just take the trip. Best idea ever. It was so relaxing, and it was a godsend to spend some time alone together and reconnect. It helped me in a lot of ways too--I'd been thinking some crazy thoughts and the weekend made me realize that they *were* crazy thoughts. Anyhoo--that was what happened.

All this traveling back and forth left me plenty time to read. Thank you all for your recs--I took quite a few and read some enjoyable stories that I'd like to tell you about so, maybe, possibly, I'll have some recs of my own for you--or little reviews of what I read and why I liked it. Expect shallow thoughts and porn ratings. :)

*HUUUUUUUUUUUUGS you all*