Mrs. Smith

[roxy]

Yesterday was a bad day. I got news that my friend's mom passed away, and it was upsetting to say the least. I felt horrible because I just lost it completely, instead of being strong for my friend.
I'm going to miss her so much. Mrs. Smith (my friend's mom) always used to say that Mr. R was her handsome boyfriend, kidding around of course. I'm pretty sure anyway. :) She had this outrageous accent, cute really (she was Japanese) so...because my whole family is demonspawn, my mom and I would occasionally poke a little fun at it. Well, specifically, the phrase, "it's time to hit the load." I took to using it whenever I left Mom's house 'cause I thought it was so cute--except for the one time Mrs. Smith just happened to be visiting, and just happened to catch me...you see, my friends? There is no lesson learned so well and so deeply as a lesson handed to you covered in a thick coating of excruciating embarrassment and stuffed with "you're such an asshole" filling. Thankfully, she forgave me. ;)

I'm going to miss her so much.

Comments

[roxymissrose.livejournal.com]

Thank you so much.

[kaydee23.livejournal.com]

Roxy, I'm so sorry about your friend. It's hard, isn't it? You have my sincerest condolences. There's been times when I should have been strong for a friend when they suffered a lost, but sometimes it just hurts so much.

My best friend is 68, and anytime I try calling her and she doesn't answer the phone, I start freaking out!

I know what a lovely loving woman you are, so Mrs. Smith knew, too. That was sweet of you to share her with Mr. Roxy. I have a boyfriend like that! There's an older French couple I used to work with, and he became my *secret* boyfriend, and we would tease about our *secret* romance within hearing distance of his amused wife. They came to work a couple of weeks ago to visit, and his wife cracked up on us running to each other and hugging and proclaiming how much we had missed one another. Hee.

[roxymissrose.livejournal.com]

Thank you lovey, it was such a wrench.

I loved the way those two carried on, it was so cute! It made me happy to know how much she liked him!

All I can think about now is how I need to get in touch with my other older friends...we always think we have so much time.

*HUGS* Love you!

[myownghost.livejournal.com]

i'm sorry to hear this. it sounds like she was a lovable and charming woman. my sympathies, roxy.

[roxymissrose.livejournal.com]

She was a great lady, she really was.
*hug* Thank you.

[matryoshkarose.livejournal.com]

I'm so sorry. *hugs*

[roxymissrose.livejournal.com]

Thank you so much.

[lexalicious70.livejournal.com]

I'm so sorry for your loss, Miss Roxy. I'll keep you in my prayers.

*hug*

[roxymissrose.livejournal.com]

Thank you, sweetie, thank you so much.

[luvmax1.livejournal.com]

I'm so sorry, sweetie. My sympathies go out to you, and to Mrs. Smith's family. *Huge hugs*

[roxymissrose.livejournal.com]

Thank you so, so, much, love.

[beet]

I'm so sorry, hon. I don't think you should beat yourself up about your reaction, though. Sometimes knowing that other people are grieving as deeply as you are is comforting, too. (((Hugs)))

[roxymissrose.livejournal.com]

Yeah, I talked to my friend, and she said me crying kind of gave her permission to cry as well--she's a real tough cookie, my friend.

*hugs you back hard* Thanks, beloved.

[tasabian.livejournal.com]

I'm so sorry for your loss. She sounds like an awesome, fun lady and the flirting with Mr. Roxy is so sweet! Bet she got a real kick out of that.

The world needs more fun people. We can't afford to lose any.

*hugs you*

[roxymissrose.livejournal.com]

Oh, she was a great, great lady, a real special person. Thanks so much, my dear.

[sage]

Oh, honey, I'm so sorry. She sounds like a great lady.

*hugs much*

[roxymissrose.livejournal.com]

She really was a very special lady. We're going to miss her so much.

Thank you.
*hugsandhugs*

[amber-32random.livejournal.com]

My heart goes out to you and your friend. *Hugs you* Pass it on.

[roxymissrose.livejournal.com]

*hugs* I will, when I see her this week, I'll give her all these hugs. Thank you.

[nerowill.livejournal.com]

*hugs* My sympathy to you and your friend and her family. It's never easy losing someone.

[roxymissrose.livejournal.com]

It's true, it's always terribly hard. Thanks so much.

[rosy5000.livejournal.com]

*hugs*

I'm so sorry for your friend's and your loss. :( She sounds like she was a wonderful person. *hugs*

[roxymissrose.livejournal.com]

Oh, she really was, like another mom to me. *HUGHUG*

[dawnybee.livejournal.com]

My sympathies to yourself and your friend. You are both in my thoughts.

[roxymissrose.livejournal.com]

Thank you, love, thanks so much.

[meret.livejournal.com]

I'm sorry for your loss. *hugs*

[roxymissrose.livejournal.com]

Thank so very much.

[norwich36.livejournal.com]

*Hugs* I'm so sorry for your loss.

[roxymissrose.livejournal.com]

*clings* Thank you.

[arianstarr.livejournal.com]

*hugs* I am so sorry, hon.

[roxymissrose.livejournal.com]

Thank you, lovey, thank you.

[selinamoonfire.livejournal.com]

I'm so sorry. HUGS!

[roxymissrose.livejournal.com]

*CLING*

[tabaqui]

Awwww, bay-bee.
I'm so sorry for you and your friend both.
*hugs you lots*

[roxymissrose.livejournal.com]

*cries* I thought I could answer all these no problem, but I'm kind of a liquidy mess now. *HUG*

[frelling-tralk.livejournal.com]

*hugs*

[roxymissrose.livejournal.com]

Thanks so much, dear.

[goth-clark.livejournal.com]

*hugs* I'm so sorry.

[roxymissrose.livejournal.com]

Thank you so much.

[cinderella81.livejournal.com]

Oh hon, I'm so sorry ... it's always hard to lose someone close to you ...

My thoughts are with you ...

[roxymissrose.livejournal.com]

Thank you so much, lovey, thank you.

[iibnf.livejournal.com]

I'm sorry for your loss, she sounds extraordinary.

[roxymissrose.livejournal.com]

She was an incredible lady, she really was.
Thank you so much.

[ladydreamer.livejournal.com]

*hugs!* I'm so sorry, babe.

[roxymissrose.livejournal.com]

Thank you, love. I have to admit, I really kind of needed these hugs.

[carolandtom.livejournal.com]

I'm so sorry. *Hugs*

[roxymissrose.livejournal.com]

Thank you, sweetie, thanks so much.

[supercaptain182.livejournal.com]

I'm so sorry, Ms. Roxy.

*hugs*

[roxymissrose.livejournal.com]

Oh, lovey, thank you so much!