hey guys!

[roxy]

Just wanted to let you know that after we got the news about Mr. R's dad we left for Georgia the next day--*DRIVING* We are here now, totally exhausted, so I'll catch up on comments soon--thank you, folks who left lovely comments on Public Enemies! :)

Comments

[tabaqui]

Oh, goodness. You guys take care of yourselves and don't get totally overwhelmed, now!

And please pass along my sincere condolences to Mr. R. I am so very, very sorry for his loss. Losing your dad...that just sucks so hard.
*love and blessings to you both*

[roxymissrose.livejournal.com]

I will, thank you, love! He's handling it pretty well, considering--I think there's just so much stuff going on he hasn't really processed it yet. I feel like a bad person, but I am so dreading the funeral.

[tabaqui]

You are *not* a bad person. Funeral's suck. So glad we didn't have one for my dad. He was cremated, and we just had a memorial like three weeks later, with food and friends. Much, much better.

All that laying out and viewing and crap....*shudders*. Horrible.

Cat's dad just died, too, as you probably remember, and it was the same - he and his brother and sister were so caught *up* in all the crap, they didn't really process anything until that day, and then they all just broke down.

But...it does feel good to cry and laugh and *grieve*. It's a good, cleansing thing.

*smishes*
*luffs muchly*

You're his rock right now, you know. You can do it.

[roxymissrose.livejournal.com]

I keep thinking of Cat and wondering how he's doing. This is such a heavy thing, and folks seem to expect a person to get over it quickly. But it hangs on and on, kind of jumping out at you when you least expect it.

So, hugs to you, double hugs to him and *thank* you. ♥ ♥

[daisydumont.livejournal.com]

That's the way it was when my mom died -- I had to rush home, and it took days for reality to sink in. My sympathies to Mr. Roxy and you and to all the family on your loss. It's a transition, when that generation moves on. <3

[roxymissrose.livejournal.com]

omgosh, yes. We're them now. No one left to pat us on the back and tell us to buck up, except each other.

♥

[bubblesbrnaid]

Yikes. That's a long drive from here, I hate to think how far it is from where you started.

Rest well.

[roxymissrose.livejournal.com]

Even with an overnight stop in Virginia, it was a drive from hell. I hated it when I was in my twenties, and now in my sixties, it's just an extended slow torture. On the plus side...wait. No plus.

[bubblesbrnaid]

Yeah, especially not with the reasons behind this trip. That just makes a long trip worse.

[oldbatj.livejournal.com]

Roxy, so very sorry to hear the sad news of Mr R's daddy passing away. It was a true blessing that he was surrounded by loving faces at the time however. So glad Mr R has your warm arms for his comfort.

Drive carefully... and please know there are many good wishes and supportive prayers going out to and for you and your family members.

[roxymissrose.livejournal.com]

*HUGS*

Thank you so much--we all appreciate your kindness. ♥

[sillie]

*hugs*

[roxymissrose.livejournal.com]

*HUGBACK*

Thank you so much!

[rosy5000.livejournal.com]

Sending lots of love and hugs for you, Mr. R., BG and the rest of the family from my whole family. We're keeping you all in our thoughts. *hugs* ♥

[roxymissrose.livejournal.com]

Please tell your family thanks so much, also tell your folks I said thank you for *you*, because you're one hell of an amazing person. ♥ ♥

[luvmax1.livejournal.com]

I'm so sorry for your loss, Roxy. Please pass on my condolences to your husband. *Hugs*

[roxymissrose.livejournal.com]

I will--and thank you, love. ♥

[tasabian.livejournal.com]

My condolences to Mr. R. Even if a passing is not unexpected, that doesn't at all diminish the pain of it.

I hope that once you are back home you can both treat yourselves a little, as a reward for getting through a rough time.

[roxymissrose.livejournal.com]

*HUGS*

Thank you so much, my dear. I do hope I can talk him into taking a day or two to recover after this.

[clarkscherry.livejournal.com]

Sorry for your and Mr. R's loss.

[roxymissrose.livejournal.com]

Thank you, love.

&hearts&

[silsbee329.livejournal.com]

Sending hugs to you all. <3

[roxymissrose.livejournal.com]

Thank you so much, sweetie. We really appreciate your kind thoughts. It's been rough for him, but he's pushing on through. ♥

[supernutjapan.livejournal.com]

So sorry to hear about Mr. R's dad's passing. *hugs you both*

[beeej.livejournal.com]

So very sorry, Roxy. Hug Mr. R. for me.

[capnzebbie.livejournal.com]

*hugs*