I need a spine!

[roxy]

My friends list is *full* of folks who aren't here anymore or who have wandered away from this place. If I defriend these no-longer active accounts, are they still counted as friends on my profile page? It seems silly to have this huge count when it's not even true. Though I know that personally I'm more comfortable cold-friending people when I see they have a billion friends--kind of that slip in all unnoticed thing. I know this is just going to end up another round of me unsuccessfully trying to clean house. The last time I defriended folks, I think I cut three journals that hadn't been updated since 2006. I'm such a doof. I mean--they're not even *there*! They won't care or notice. But what if they do and I hurt their feelings???

Why am I such a weinie?

I'm this way about picking one brand of coffee over the other, too.

Comments

[tabaqui]

Heee!
I dunno - why houseclean? If they're not posting, then they're not cluttering up your flist with crap you don't care about, and you don't have a limit to the number of people you can friend, so..... What's the point?

I don't ever look at anyone's profile page when i friend, i just friend off the little menu that pops up off their icon and that's that.

[roxymissrose.livejournal.com]

It's just so...messy! There's names everywhere and I don't even know some of them--probably most...am I obsessing again? I'm obsessing...okay, sitting down.
*g*

[tabaqui]

Dude!
I can't even remember the last time i looked at my profile page. Who cares! It's all in alphabetical order, it's all hidden away, for the most part.....

Just ignore it and go on your merry way.
*twirls you*

[roxymissrose.livejournal.com]

*nods*

I'm supposed to be writing anyway. Which is probably why this suddenly got all important and shit. *GGG*

[tabaqui]

*snerk*