I need a spine!

[roxy]

My friends list is *full* of folks who aren't here anymore or who have wandered away from this place. If I defriend these no-longer active accounts, are they still counted as friends on my profile page? It seems silly to have this huge count when it's not even true. Though I know that personally I'm more comfortable cold-friending people when I see they have a billion friends--kind of that slip in all unnoticed thing. I know this is just going to end up another round of me unsuccessfully trying to clean house. The last time I defriended folks, I think I cut three journals that hadn't been updated since 2006. I'm such a doof. I mean--they're not even *there*! They won't care or notice. But what if they do and I hurt their feelings???

Why am I such a weinie?

I'm this way about picking one brand of coffee over the other, too.

Comments

[write-light.livejournal.com]

Coffee, no, no. You buy either Café La Llave (green can) or Café Bustelo (yellow can) and you mix that 50/50 with French Market Coffee (red can). HEAVEN.

(I have no advice on defriending, since I'm just like you).

[roxymissrose.livejournal.com]

Goodness, it's like you're talking coffee flavored porn....

I have no advice on defriending, since I'm just like you

I've decided that I'm just going to have to let it go. I'm just never going to be able to woman up and make cuts.