If you thought you were sick, like potentially fatally sick, and you didn't tell the people closest to you, would that be considered lying? No reason I'm asking, just curious.
Uh, yes? Also incredibly dumb, hurtful, and rather selfish. The people need to know, because for something like that to come out of the blue and, say, kill a person? When they had no idea? Will make it all that much worse.
So yes.
And, upon reading your other comments. Holy fucking gods, woman. If you have some kind of issue happening, knock it the fuck off and get to the doctor. Right now.
Ach, I'm an idiot--and kind of an asshole, to y'all and the Fam. I did go to the doctor and all the worry was just worry. Clean bill of health, and everything is as okay as an old overweight broad can be okay.
Also, I meant if you *thought* you might have health issues, not fully knowing you did. If that was the case you'd definitely be wrong, yes.
What made me think of this was Sam on Show and how folks were saying there they go lying to each other again, and I'm watching this and worrying that this thing that was bugging me might be cancerous (according to the internet, but as my beloved said, everything is cancer on the internet) and keeping this to myself because I figured everyone had too much on their plate already and didn't need to needlessly worry about my shit.
So, basically I turned into a 60's housewife, except without the Mother's Little Helper, which if I had those I might have at least cleaned the house and washed clothes...I over-identify with our boys and yes, I'm an idiot.
Imma make you cookies anyway, just in case you decide you still have to come kick my butt. :D
You are so silly. Never, ever hide that stuff. It *sucks* to be the other person in the equation, not knowing anything is wrong and then *bam*!! Or - seeing your beloved unhappy and on edge but not knowing why or how to fix it....
I am *so* glad you're doing all right, bb. And yes - everything on the interwebz is cancer. Just like it's *never* lupus. *pet pet pet pet*
People who love you will want to know, you giant goober.
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10/10/15 05:07 am (UTC)So yes.
And, upon reading your other comments. Holy fucking gods, woman. If you have some kind of issue happening, knock it the fuck off and get to the doctor. Right now.
Jayzus, don't make me come up there.
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10/10/15 05:23 am (UTC)Also, I meant if you *thought* you might have health issues, not fully knowing you did. If that was the case you'd definitely be wrong, yes.
What made me think of this was Sam on Show and how folks were saying there they go lying to each other again, and I'm watching this and worrying that this thing that was bugging me might be cancerous (according to the internet, but as my beloved said, everything is cancer on the internet) and keeping this to myself because I figured everyone had too much on their plate already and didn't need to needlessly worry about my shit.
So, basically I turned into a 60's housewife, except without the Mother's Little Helper, which if I had those I might have at least cleaned the house and washed clothes...I over-identify with our boys and yes, I'm an idiot.
Imma make you cookies anyway, just in case you decide you still have to come kick my butt. :D
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10/10/15 05:32 am (UTC)You are so silly. Never, ever hide that stuff. It *sucks* to be the other person in the equation, not knowing anything is wrong and then *bam*!! Or - seeing your beloved unhappy and on edge but not knowing why or how to fix it....
I am *so* glad you're doing all right, bb. And yes - everything on the interwebz is cancer. Just like it's *never* lupus.
*pet pet pet pet*
People who love you will want to know, you giant goober.
Ooooh, cookies.
*looks for suitcase*